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Erika Miley, MEd, LMHC


Recommended Reading

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Products I Recommend

Here are a few products that I’ve tested and use regularly. I won’t recommend products I don’t believe it or have never used personally. While I may receive a small commission on purchases, this does not impact my recommendation.

Poor products remain just that, poor products and I will never recommend them. I build a close relationship with my partners who only provide high quality products. If those conditions ever change, I’ll try to remedy the situation or quit endorsing the product. The end.

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Juicebox Coaching App

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Yes Yes Yes, Water and Oil Based Lubes

While I do not have a direct relationship with Yes products, I use their line of water and oil based lubes All. The. Time. It’s my go to lube as it’s organic and safe to use.


LELO has been some of my favorite pleasure products out on the market. They do have a price premium but are made of high quality materials and have outlasted everything else I’ve ever tried! Click the image to shop directly at Lelo with our special offers!


Sliquid is another lube I recommend. Choose water-based for personal and toy use, oil-based for anal pleasure, and silicon for a different feel. Their products are amazing! Click the image to shop directly from Sliquid with our special offer code.

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