36. Relationship Killers Part 2- Criticism 

Part two of my series on relationship killers! Criticism is tough whether it is coming from a partner, a friend, or even a co-worker.  Criticism typically focuses on a specific behavior and often has some polarizing language. Find out how to tackle criticism in your relationship in this episode.

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35. Break-ups with Lindsey Brock

Break-up sex? Or have you ever had a break up that rocked your world?  This is the episode for you!  Erika and Lindsey talk about how to deal with a break-up, what we think about break up sex and more! 

Find Lindsey here: 

http://thebreakuptherapist.com/ 

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34. ADHD and Sex

ADHD is tough!  Erika talks with Brendan Mahan who is an ADHD consultant and coach about ways to deal with having ADHD and being intimate with your partner.   

Find Brendan here: 

https://www.adhdessentials.com/  

Find his podcast here: 

https://www.adhdessentials.com/podcasts/ 

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33. Sex Dolls or Intimate Partner Alternatives with Don Delano 

In this episode Erika talks with Don Delano who is the owner of Mon Amour Toujours which gives customers the ability to create their own personalized Intimate Partner Alternative (IPA).  Erika and Don talk about the pitfalls of his business and also how these IPA’s have helped his customers. 

Find Don here: 

https://monamourtoujours.com/realistic-sex-dolls 

support@monamourtoujours.com 

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32. Relationship Killers 

In this episode Erika talks about what things we do to kill our relationships.  Specifically, how contempt is the number one predictor of the end of a relationship.  Erika gives you skills to tackle these relationship issues!

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31. Highly Sensitive People and Sex with Laura Zane 

In this episode Erika talks with fellow therapist Laura Zane about what being a highly sensitive person means and what it might mean for their intimate lives.   

How to find Laura in the world: 

www.sagesynergy.net 

laura@sagesynergy.net 

This is the website she suggested:  https://hsperson.com/  

If you are a highly sensitive therapist and would like some community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/320197848560941/  

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30. Creating healthy relationships from the beginning with Dr. Maha

In this episode Erika talks with Maha Nasrallah-Babenko, PhD about creating relationships and ways to start with a good foundation.  They also talked about how relationships do not have a bluebook or road map but there are things a new relationship can do to influence how it turns out.  

 

Find Maha Nasrallah-Babenko, PhD here: 

www.bondbetter.com 

info@bondbetter.com

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29. Body image, perceptions of weight, and sex

In this episode Erika talks about how negative thoughts about our bodies take us out of moments of pleasure and connection.  Erika gives a concrete way to challenge those thoughts by using techniques to distance the thoughts from your identity. 

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28. Relationships, sex, & Men with Robert Kandell

In this episode Erika talks with Robert Kandell, about relationships and how communication effects intimacy.  More specifically how men can experience frustration in cultural messages about feelings and how they “should” express them. His book Unhidden comes out December 6th! 

 

Check out Robert’s work here: 

https://robertkandell.com/  


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27. Virginity with Dr. Jaime Kennedy

In this episode Erika talks with a longtime friend Jaime Kennedy, Ph.D about her research on virginity and how historically virginity has been used as a tool.  Dr. Jaime brings wonderful information about how virginity or purity has historically been used as a propaganda tool.  Listen to this week’s episode to find out how! 

You can find Dr. Jaime in these places: 

www.houghluck.com  

www.abd2phd.com  

 

See examples of the WWII VD posters here: 

WWII VD Posters

Visual Culture and Public Health Posters

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