47. Infertility and Sex

The process of creating life is not always an easy one.  Erika talks with Ariel Shumaker-Hammond Clinical Therapist and Photographer about the infertility journey and how it impacts couples and their intimate lives.   

Check out Ariel and some of the resources she suggested in the episode: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/ariel-m-shumaker-hammond-asheville-nc/243918 

arielshumakerphotography.com 

facebook/ashevillephoto or arielshumakerphoto on instagram 

 

Links for more information on therapy and infertility: 

resolve.org 

psychologytoday.com 

ARSM which is at reproductivefacts.org 

 

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46. Avoiding Your Emotional Sh*t and how it Impacts Your Sex Life

Just you and me for this episode.  I want to talk about how avoiding your emotional shit, your baggage, the problems from your past, whatever you would like to call it impacts your sexual life.  Your whole self is important, and we try and silo ourselves into compartments.  Every piece of us is impacted when we are not identifying how we feel about ourselves. 

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45. Finding Your Feminine Fire with Amanda Testa 

Erika talks with Amanda Testa a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach who specializes in helping folks get in touch with their sexuality and femininity. They get down to business about how getting in touch with your sexuality can change your perspective and can offer you healing. Check out her podcast Find Your Feminine Fire and her Facebook group. 

Find Amanda here: 

https://www.amandatesta.com/  

https://www.facebook.com/groups/FindYourFeminineFire/

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44. Butt Stuff 2.0

All things about the butt again!  Erika’s first episode about butt stuff has been the most popular so far across the world.  So it’s time again to visit the back door.  Need information about where to begin about your own butt start with this episode.  

Excellent video resources about the butt: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0p84az86DfM  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp9MT1di9as  

 

 

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43. Sex and Divorce 

Facing divorce? Erika talks with Leanne Townsend attorney and divorce coach about preparing for the divorce process and ways to reduce the pain of the divorce. Leanne offers a coaching program that can help you get through one of the toughest transitions of life. 

 

Find Leanne here: 

https://leannetownsend.ca/  

 

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42. Sex and Miscarriage 

When can you have sex after experiencing a miscarriage?  Erika answers some of your questions about taking care of yourself after experiencing this major change emotionally and physically. 

Referenced website: 

https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/how-soon-can-couples-have-sex-again-after-a-miscarriage/ 

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41. Living with an STI/STD with Katie Warren 

Culture is bad at handling anything that has to do with sex and shame.  Erika talks with Katie Warren who has an STI. Katie talks about her experience with having an STI and how she processed the events after.  This episode is full of information about STIs/STDs listen to learn more!

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40. Pornhub’s 2018 Year In Review

Every year, Pornhub reviews the data it collects on every user that views porn on their site.  Erika talks about the interesting trends their data collection reveals about our porn use and our sexual fantasies. 

Interested in reading it for yourself?  Read here: 

https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review 

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39. Gender, Sexual Orientation 101 with Adam Maurer

Erika and Adam get right down to how to explore your gender and what arouses you in this episode.  Adam talks about his own exploration and how he has helped his clients figure out who they are and how to express their needs sexually. 

 

You can find Adam here: 

moontowercounseling.com 

Insta: 

@moontower_counseling 

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38. Sex & Medications revisited w/ Nick Goodwin, ARNP 

Have you had side effects from your anti-depressants in your sex life?  This is the episode for you.  Nick Goodwin and Erika talk about how medications can impact your sex life and options for you to try.  Erika and Nick also dive into other non-medication options for treating mental health issues.   

 

Find Nick: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/psychiatrists/nicholas-goodwin-spokane-wa/393634  

 

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