25. Billy Procida, Desire, and putting yourself out there

IErika interviewed comedian Billy Procida about his podcast the Manwhore Podcast.  Billy shared information about his most recent episode that featured his trip to Desire Resorts.  See why Erika said listening to his episode was like ESPN after dark. 

 

If you are interested in Desire resorts check out Billy’s link: 

manwhorepod.com/desire  

You can also find him on all the socials, my favorite is instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/thebillyprocida/  

You can also find his podcast the Manwhore Podcast anywhere you get your podcasts and his website is: www.manwhorepod.com  

 

 


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24. STIs & STDs and how to talk about them

In this episode Erika talks about STIs and how to talk to our future and past partners about them.  We often battle fear and shame around sex generally and especially around STIs.  Erika teaches you to be able to talk about an STI in a real non-scary way.   

Websites referenced:  
https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/fact_sheets.htm   
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships_sexual_health/when_where_and_why_telling_your_partner_you_have_an_sti  

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23. When Your Kids Find Your Sex Toys

In this episode of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, Erika talks about confronts shame around your kids finding out you are a sexual person. Erika offers some tips on how to have these conversations and options to hide those sexual items.  

Article referenced in episode:  
https://www.kinkly.com/creative-ways-to-store-and-hide-your-sex-toys-and-still-be-able-to-find-them/2/17006    

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22. Sex and Negative Beliefs

This week Erika talks about how the negative beliefs about ourselves and our bodies impact our connection to others.  
3 ways to tackle those beliefs:  

  1. Acceptance in the here and now

  2. Express the feelings attached to the unworthiness 

  3. Absurdity, use something that makes you laugh and connect that those beliefs. 

 

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21. Sex and the Brain

In this episode Erika talks about how the impact of sex on the brain  and its benefits.  A variety of chemicals are associated with positive outcomes in the brain.  All of the studies are linked here in the show notes.   

Studies referenced: 
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763412000565   
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/329185  

 

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20. The Pussy Party and Sexual Shame and our Words 

In this episode of Sex Talk with Erika Miley,  Erika talks with Madam President from the Pussy Party Podcast.  We talk about the limitations and shame that comes with using words that describe female sex organs as something weak.  We also talk about embracing your sexual self.    

You can find the Pussy Party Podcast here:  
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pussy-party-podcast/id1364468044?mt=2   
https://www.facebook.com/pwussypartypodcast/   

and my favorite:  
https://www.instagram.com/pwussypartypodcast/   

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19. Social media, dating apps, and DMs

I wanted to do this episode for several reasons: 

  1. I think knowledge is power. Yes, very School House Rock, but I think if you know better you can do better.

  2. My own experiences have weirded me out, and my friends and family who I have talk to about this express similar sentiments.

  3. My experience with working with people around difficult sexual problems including sexual entitlements.

  4. What is sexual entitlement and how does it fit into this conversation?


Friends descriptions of their experiences.
How this actually feels vs. the intended message.
So... what's the conclusion of this? If you need help figuring out how to begin a relationship or social interactions with others, reach out for help!!! For instance, rather than saying in a DM, "Hey beautiful", then sending them a dick pic, you could say "Hey, I saw your profile and I saw you like ___. I like ___ too. What is your favorite thing about ___. This type of communication will typically get you father than commenting on our bodies. Just like with catcalling, it does not make us feel flattered, it makes us feel afraid. 

 

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If you struggle with shame about your body, your sexuality, or need to process your personal life, I offer 1-on-1 Therapy. Click the button to the right for more info.

 

18. Mental health medications, Sex, and Side effects 

In episode 18 of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, I talk about mental health medications and the sexual side effects of taking those types of prescriptions.  I also talk about how to cope with those side effects.  Sometimes when taking mental health prescriptions it interferes with sexual desire.  I talk about how to tackle that in a real way and give some suggestions on products to use. 

 Here are the links for the lubricants I reference on the podcast. 
https://www.yesyesyes.org/  
https://sliquid.com/  

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If you want more info look for me live on IG TV after the episode to chat further about this and other topics on Fridays! 

 

If you struggle with shame about your body, your sexuality, or need to process your personal life, I offer 1-on-1 Therapy. Click the button to the right for more info.

 

17. Sex Resources with Juicebox and Brianna Rader

In this episode Erika talks about available reliable sexual resources.  For when you have question right now and want to get appropriate information.  
Corey Silverberg- https://www.corysilverberg.com/books/   
HeyEpiphora - https://heyepiphora.com/   
http://www.scarleteen.com/   
https://o.school/   
Juicebox:  - https://www.juiceboxit.com/ 
Listeners can use code: erika   This will give you access for free for a trial period!    

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Sex! the Podcast : Episode 16: Sex and Energy w/Michael Spencer

In this episode Erika talks with Michael Spencer about the energy we have around our stuff.  This includes our feelings and memories we attach to our things.  This includes our sexual items, memories, or experiences.

https://letspurify.energy/ 
michael@letspurify.energy 
717-385-8382  

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